Disarming Absolutists and Authoritarians: Defending LGBTQ, Gender Identities, Gay Marriage

When it comes to the LGBTQ cohort and issues of gender, I do not have all the answers. Like everyone, I am not personally connected to the whole of our diverse humanity, so I will always be at a disadvantage in explaining one perspective or another. Nor can I, or will I, justify every thing that everyone says or does. That said, it confuses me on many levels why people fear those who refused to fit into the non-binary gender category, and why are those same people horrified by the sexual habits of some of their neighbors — who are generally good people. Unfortunately, being ‘good people’ isn’t enough for many Americans. Their ideas of human ‘perfection’ and individualism have different points of reference than mine. Though imperfect themselves, these ‘deciders’ believe in their ability to determine what ‘perfection’ is, and how far individualism can be taken. A short definition of the latter would be ‘static-quo individualism’ (notice its oxymoronic futility), and the other is pr...